(sorry, couldn’t type Chinese..) Why we never became more than friends？ After read this article(Shin), I was touched beyond words. I had a lot of feelings and thoughts inside that I needed to let out… 欢, I just wonder what kind of relationship between you and Shin？ A close friendship！？ Sometimes friendship can softly turn to love, just like u and Boss.(what a beautiful thing) Just guess..if Shin doesn’t have any gf, perhaps Boss will be the secondary choice. (sorry！Mr. Boss.. that’s just my personally feeling, it won’t happen la..) When friendship turns to love, there aren’t always easy answers to be found. “Platonic love” is very much a part of any close friendship. But such a love doesn’t always stay “Platonic”. Sometimes it turns into “passionate love”. Crossing that line, between friendship and love , can be both beautiful and extremely difficult.. I have some guy friends, but with one is particular I’ve almost crossed the line . One day he suddenly turns around and asks me-- why we never became more than friends?! My first reaction was laughter . I though that he was joking. But when I saw his hurt look and heard the words ”I meant it”. I was shock. I’m ashamed to say that I didn’t deal with it. Coz I think of all the things he could have turned to me and said-- that was the least expected. In fact , I am not ready to accept it. This guy who I ever really liked, may have even loved..has left without a warning and I can’t get in touch with him. It is like he just disappeared. And it hurts.. I wonder if he’s still here, our friendship has never been the same. It might have been better or would it be worse？ I will never know.
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(sorry, couldn’t type Chinese..)
Why we never became more than friends？
After read this article(Shin), I was touched beyond words.
I had a lot of feelings and thoughts inside that I needed to let out…
欢, I just wonder what kind of relationship between you and Shin？
A close friendship！？
Sometimes friendship can softly turn to love, just like u and Boss.(what a beautiful thing)
Just guess..if Shin doesn’t have any gf, perhaps Boss will be the secondary choice.
(sorry！Mr. Boss.. that’s just my personally feeling, it won’t happen la..)
When friendship turns to love, there aren’t always easy answers to be found.
“Platonic love” is very much a part of any close friendship.
But such a love doesn’t always stay “Platonic”. Sometimes it turns into
“passionate love”.
Crossing that line, between friendship and love , can be both beautiful and
extremely difficult..
I have some guy friends, but with one is particular I’ve almost crossed the line .
One day he suddenly turns around and asks me--
why we never became more than friends?!
My first reaction was laughter . I though that he was joking.
But when I saw his hurt look and heard the words ”I meant it”.
I was shock. I’m ashamed to say that I didn’t deal with it.
Coz I think of all the things he could have turned to me and said--
that was the least expected. In fact , I am not ready to accept it.
This guy who I ever really liked, may have even loved..has left without a
warning and I can’t get in touch with him. It is like he just disappeared.
And it hurts..
I wonder if he’s still here, our friendship has never been the same.
It might have been better or would it be worse？
I will never know.